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How not to fall into the Friendzone, having clearly stated your intentions So how to avoid the first key, and perhaps the most frequent mistake in a relationship? Kapitanski is obvious, but you can send yourself into the Friendzone by the fact that you did not pretend to a different development of events. Your girlfriend may not even realise that you wanted to be something more than just a friend to her..... Therefore, relatives, to avoid unfortunate misunderstandings, you need to make your intentions clear to her and make sure that all your communication - verbal, non-verbal, written, etc.. - is all about what you want! This doesn't mean that you have to declare to her on the first date: "I want you to be my girlfriend!" much less repeat that phrase on every date..... But, for example, instead of telling her in a friendly way:

❌ "Come over to my place sometime..."

choose the correct wording:

✔️ "I want to see you, come and visit me".

Just please, no aggression! You don't have to aggressively pursue her! But she should clearly understand that you are interested in her as your girlfriend. So, never say to her:

❌ "Why don't we grab a bite to eat?"

Friends have snacks... You, on the other hand, clearly bend your line:

✔️ "I want to take you out to dinner at a great Italian restaurant that you're sure to love..... Are you free this coming Friday, by the way?"

Hope you got the point, folks) @sceneofsex

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Let's move on to the blowjob - how to give it if the girl gets nauseous in the process?

If the girl starts to vomit from trying to give you a blowjob - don't worry, it's normal at the beginning of your journey together in oral sex. There are several techniques and tricks to avoid the gag reflex, for example, you can apply pressure to the muscle between your thumb and forefinger. Once the pressure starts to build up, the gag reflex will start to go away. Also, the posture during a blowjob can affect the gag reflex, so choose one where your throat is parallel to your partner's penis. I suggest you train your gag reflex before oral sex: after brushing your teeth, try brushing your tongue with a brush, gradually going deeper and deeper.... It may not work the first time, but don't stop and keep practising! Repeat until you no longer feel nauseous. It is enough to do it 2-3 times a week for a month, and you will see the positive result - the gag reflex will become much less or will disappear altogether. Tested by me personally!

#вопросотподписчика Перейдем к минету — как его делать, если в процессе девушку тошнит? Если девушку начинает тошнить от попытки сделать вам минет — не переживайте, это нормально в начале вашего совместного пути в оральном сексе. Существует несколько техник и приемов, чтобы избежать рвотный рефлекс, например, вы можете надавить на мышцу между большим и указательным пальцами. Как только давление начнет нарастать, рвотный рефлекс начнет уходить. Также поза во время минета может влиять на рвотный рефлекс, поэтому выберите ту, в которой горло будет параллельно пенису партнера. Предлагаю вам потренировать рвотный рефлекс перед оральным сексом: после чистки зубов попробуйте почистить язык щеткой, постепенно забираясь всё глубже и глубже... С первого раза может не получиться, но не останавливайтесь и продолжайте практиковать! Повторяйте до тех пор, пока не перестанете испытывать чувство тошноты. Достаточно делать это 2–3 раза в неделю в течение месяца, и вы увидите положительный результат — рвотный рефлекс станет намного меньше или вообще уйдет. Проверено мной лично!

What happens to a man if he doesn't have sex for a long time Many people believe that prolonged abstinence from sex harms the body... I'm sure that's not the case! Today I propose to dispel the main myths about abstinence: ▫️Sex is for health! This phrase is uttered by those who substitute the true needs for intimacy with the desire to be with a partner at least for a while. So, if you have accumulated sexual arousal, but there is no discharge either in sex or in self-satisfaction, your body can get it on its own - orgasm often happens in a dream... ▫️Stagnation of blood Many people are sure that with prolonged abstinence, blood stagnation occurs in the pelvic region. However, if a person is aroused and blood rushes to the genitals, this does not mean that he urgently needs to get a sexual discharge. Because as soon as the degree of arousal decreases, your body will continue to work as usual...

My favourite subscribers of this channel I hasten to remind you that Telegram released an unusual update in the summer: now you can put a paid reaction "star" on any post you like))) P.s. by the way, don't forget to update your Telegram to the latest version ❤️

Why all the muscles cramp during orgasm - During orgasm, the body experiences a strong release of hormones - oxytocin, dopamine and endorphins - that increase feelings of pleasure and cause brief but powerful muscle contractions. - These contractions are the result of activation of the parasympathetic nervous system, which controls reflex processes such as muscle spasms. - At this point, nerve impulses originating from the spinal cord can cause muscle contractions throughout the body, including muscles in the legs, arms, face, and even the diaphragm. These contractions can be particularly intense and can cause the muscles to feel like they are "cramping".

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Self-esteem in romantic relationships Self-confidence is very influential in building a healthy relationship in a couple... An insecure partner is more prone to quarrels, unreasonable jealousy and the desire to control every move of the other half. If one of the partners in a couple has low self-esteem - the chances of building a normal relationship are 50/50. If the other partner has high self-esteem, he can help his other half to become more confident. If both partners have low and unstable self-esteem, then such relationships are doomed to failure, even if people will be together for a long time - happiness in such a couple will be catastrophically little or not at all. As a rule, partners with low self-esteem do not allow themselves to clearly and distinctly express their wishes and talk about their needs in the relationship (the need for love, care, communication, freedom, understanding, material comfort). This happens because people with low self-esteem compare and identify wishes and needs with demands, and at the same time they feel that they have no right to demand. And their partner finds it difficult to fulfil unclear wishes, so they tend to go unfulfilled..... And unfulfilled wishes are perceived as a sign of insufficient love & misunderstanding. Low self-esteem is confirmed - a person who doesn't value himself can't express his wishes, and without receiving the love he expects, he is once again convinced of his "worthlessness"...

How to kill self-esteem - Excuse me, sorry to bother you, are you alone in here? - Yes?! - I'll take a chair, then? Thank you! Ups...

It'll break your brain Pretending you don't know won't work... Family, just think about this phrase: a man appreciates only that woman who does not need him, and a man loves only that woman who needs him. And to realise that there is no contradiction in this phrase, ask yourself the question:

"What does a man need a man for?"

As soon as you answer that you need a man to love and to feel needed - you are letting the masculine energy flow through you.

What does the feminine answer sound like?

The female answer is to bring money to the house, to protect.

Why not for love?

Because a woman is love, she is emotions! She gives them, not needs them.... Emotions are a man's need, as soon as a woman makes it clear that she needs a man not because she loves him, but because he is a provider, and that it will be difficult for her without him, a man emotionally starts to need a woman. And a woman needs to love herself!